The only person you can control is you.
It’s time to let go of the notion that you have any control over another person. The only person you can control is you. The paradox of control is, the more I try and control you, the more you are actually controlling me.
What good does it do for you to get wrapped around an axle if you can’t do anything about it? The only thing you can do is to find a different way to deal with it. You can’t make someone or a situation change. Change yourself or your reaction. Find a different way.