Two months, too soon?


I have been dating my boyfriend for about 2 months and I don’t think we are on the same page. I want to know if it is okay for me to ask him his intentions. I want to know if he wants to work toward marriage.

Is it too soon to have that talk?

Stressed Out!

Dear Stressed Out,

You are just starting phase two in the dating cycle. The first two months are supposed to be fun!

You need to concentrate on getting to know this person and letting him get to know you in a very casual way. It is way more important to fall in like than to be worrying about love and marriage!

Take a step backwards, rewind and have some casual fun! If you push this person you will lose this relationship.

— Karen