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An alternative to authenticity.

The mantra for most of us is “be authentic” — find your true self and…

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Boundaries: Where do you end and I begin?

Heathy boundaries in a relationship are extremely important. They need to be set up from…

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What does a healthy relationship look like?

Be a whole person. You don’t need another person to make you whole. You need…

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Activity | Partner Awareness Quiz

[From: Dr. Phil’s Relationship Rescue] Don’t make the mistake of thinking that you already know…

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Pulling yourself out of the Karpman drama triangle

Back in the 1960’s a new theory exploded on the psychology scene – TRANSACTIONAL ANALYSIS…

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Start when things are small

When dealing with issues in a relationship it is always easier to start when they…

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DO NOT go to the B.A.R.

  B = BITTER A = ANGRY R = RESENTFUL! These are the most damaging…

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The new definition of responsibility.

The word RESPONSIBILITY can be confusing. Most of us look at it as kind of…

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Check before you wreck.

When my sister moved to Savannah Georgia she said that she quickly learned to count…

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Every marriage is a mistake.

In the 1960’s, a lot changed in the world. It was no different in the…

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You can learn something from everything.

You can learn something from everything! Sometimes really uncomfortable stuff happens. We make mistakes, we…

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It’s easier to stay out than get out.

    “It’s easier to stay out then get out.” — Mark Twain This is one…

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That which is squelched is not dead.

THAT WHICH IS SQUELCHED IS NOT DEAD! When we don’t speak our truth and let…

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The only person you can control is you.

It’s time to let go of the notion that you have any control over another…

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Almost nothing is about you.

When someone is acting different around us, we often assume that we have done something…

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Life is a conversation

  I used to rely heavily on the words “communication” and “talk”. The first thing…

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Speak your truth.

The only obligation you have in any relationship is to let someone know how you…

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Let them know, and let it go.

Let them know and then let it go. This is one of my favorite topics!…

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